Physically, I’m slim with natural curves. I stand at 5′ 4″, weigh 125 pounds and my bust is a 34 C (all natural). My hair is brown with soft blonde highlights, and I’m 47 years young. I enjoy life, and choose not to take things too seriously. As a result, you’ll usually find me with a smile – I don’t sweat the small stuff.

I love reading—mostly nonfiction—cooking, and staying active both physically and mentally. You’ll often find me practicing yoga, taking a master class, hiking, snowboarding when the season allows, or enjoying a good gym session. Movement and meditation are part of my daily rhythm.

I’m a social non-drinker, though I’m happy if you enjoy a glass. A beautifully crafted mocktail always delights me. And flowers? Always a yes—though peonies and garden roses hold a special place in my heart. Two places I wish to visit this year are Mexico City and Tokyo.

I grew up in one of those rarefied, tree-lined East Coast towns—and yes, at the Country Club. I understand that world well, and more importantly, perhaps your lifestyle. I appreciate the finer things in life, yet I’m equally at ease sleeping under the stars in a tent. It’s that ability to move fluidly between worlds—with ease and curiosity, that makes me unique. Well, that and many other things!

I’ve been fortunate to live many lives: I’ve experienced the suburban dream, followed my creative passions, and built multiple successful businesses. I’ve been a media darling at times, and find it exhilarating to push the edges of the unconventional.

In recent years, I’ve formed friendships with elite companions who are empowered and thriving by traditional measures of success. Conversations with these friends opened a new lens for me—one that led to an unexpected and fulfilling chapter. I continue to lead a rich life outside of this realm, which allows me to be selective—welcoming new connections only when they feel truly aligned.

I’m easily entertained and always up for an adventure. When dining out, I prefer a farm-to-table experience over white linen formality. I love music in all its forms—whether it’s a live concert or a night at the opera. Experiences over things, always. Share what sparks you, and my curiosity will come out to play. The ideal date isn’t about the setting—it’s about the chemistry. Show up as your authentic self, and we’ll write a memorable page together.

I spent years deeply immersed in BDSM and FemDom—and while I no longer lead with that energy, it remains a meaningful part of me. My soft spot is a well behaved submissive on their knees, male or female. In terms of role play, a big YES! If you’re interested in creating a scene or have specific fetishes you would like to engage with, let’s discuss.

While gifts are never expected, thoughtful gestures are always appreciated. Some of my favorites include a day at the spa — The Claremont in Oakland or Indian Springs in Calistoga are both heavenly — the Original Santal fragrance by Creed, or a gift card to Anthropologie or Aritzia. And if you’d like to take me shoe shopping, I never say no to a pair of sky-high Jimmy Choos or classic Louboutins. More than anything, I appreciate when you care to take the time to select and offer a gift, no matter what it may be.